The important word I wanted to re-mention from my original post was:
responsibility. Taking responsibility upon yourself.
You mention Narcissism Clark, and Hanna you mention arrogance. Yes, those are perhaps included, but more importantly is not shying away from responsibility. Not simply not shying away but accepting a huge responsibility towards the world. (Ozymandias' responsibility made of him who he was). That responsibility, not giving excuses but seeing yourself holding the power to act as well as anyone, is crucial to become a serious person in the world. It's crucial for everyone, constantly.
You mention Spiderman's: "With great power comes great responsibility." I would almost say the inverse: taking responsibility gives you power. (Not taking responsibility after the fact, that's a different issue).
To talk stereotypically, you can see that groups which take responsibility upon themselves are usually more successful than those who don't. Solveig Wright quotes Simone de Beauvoir from
The Second Sex (in the gender stereotypes discussion,
post ):
"The men that we call great are those who -- in one way or another --
have taken the weight of the world upon their shoulders; they have done
better or worse, they have succeeded in re-creating it or they have
gone down; but first they have assumed that enormous burden. This is
what no woman has ever done, what none has ever been
able to
do. To regard the universe as one's own, to consider oneself to blame
for its faults and to glory in its progress, one must belong to the
caste of the privileged; it is for those alone who are in command to
justify the universe by changing it, by thinking about it, by revealing
it; they alone can recognize themselves in it and endeavor to make
their mark upon it. It is in man and not in woman that it has hitherto
been possible for Man to be incarnated. For the individuals who seem to
us most outstanding, who are honored with the name of genius, are those
who have proposed to enact the fate of all humanity in their personal
existences, and no woman has believed herself authorized to do this."
This is stereotypically true for different groups.
This is a (the) lesson to be learned, and it is an important one.
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